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Can white moms and Black moms ever truly be friends--not just mom friends, but real friends? And does it matter?

Helena Andrews-Dyer lives in a "hot" Washington, D.C. neighborhood, which means picturesque row houses and plenty of gentrification. After having her first child, she joined the local mom group--"the Mamas"--and quickly realized that being one of the only Black mothers in the mix was a mixed bag. The racial, cultural, and socioeconomic differences were made clear almost immediately, but spending time in what she calls "the Polly Pocket world of postracial parenting" was a welcome reprieve. Then George Floyd happened. A man was murdered, a man who called out for his mama. And suddenly, the Mamas hit different. Although they were alike in some ways--they want their kids to be safe; they think their husbands are lazy; they work too much and feel guilty about it--Andrews-Dyer realized she had an entirely different set of problems that her neighborhood mom friends could never truly understand.

In The Mamas, Andrews-Dyer chronicles the particular challenges she faces in a group where systemic racism can be solved with an Excel spreadsheet and where she, a Black, professional, Ivy League-educated mom, is overcompensating with every move. Andrews-Dyer grapples with her own inner tensions, like "Why do I always make sure I'm wearing my wedding ring when I go out with the baby?" and "Why did every name we considered for our kids have to pass the resumé test?"

Throw in a global pandemic and a nationwide movement for social justice, and Andrews-Dyer ultimately tries to find out whether moms from different backgrounds can truly understand one another. With sharp wit and refreshing honesty, The Mamas explores the contradictions and community of motherhood--white and Black and everything--against the backdrop of the rapidly changing world.

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The Mamas: What I Learned About Kids, Class, and Race from Moms Not Like Me

The Mamas: What I Learned About Kids, Class, and Race from Moms Not Like Me

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